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Settling into Routines in SLC – Bearfoot Principle

When you’ve been following alongside on these life updates, you understand that July within the van obtained a little bit tough. Sick canines and a 5-month outdated child with obvious insomnia had me feeling fairly run down.

After all all of this occurred as distant from residence as we deliberate to go this summer time – greater than midway up Vancouver Island and a 20+ hour drive again to Utah (which is extra like 40 hours for those who think about the entire stops now we have to make for the infant).

Our journey residence began from Whistler, BC. It took us a full day of touring to get to the border. Our poor child Herbie had his first tooth pop by means of that day and was clearly in a number of ache.

Our final day in Whistler earlier than starting our drive residence

By the point we reached Washington, he was in full-blown panic mode. Fortunately my shut good friend from faculty lives in Bellingham, so we booked it to her home the place we deliberate to park for the night time. 

Whereas we have been there, I obtained a message from a BFT Neighborhood Member who requested “why don’t you simply fly residence and Ryan can drive the van?”

Fly? On my own with the infant? No manner. That sounded manner too scary. What would I do if I needed to pee (or worse poop…haha) in flight? Or what if he screamed your complete time? What would my seat neighbors consider me breastfeeding? That final query I wasn’t actually fearful about, however nonetheless, all of it felt fairly intimidating. 

Once I introduced it as much as Ryan, he thought it was an important concept. It doesn’t matter what occurred, two hours on a aircraft with the infant was going to be higher for everybody (together with the infant), than making him undergo the lengthy drive residence whereas teething. 

My first flight with the infant

Fortunately I didn’t need to convey a number of baggage since I used to be flying straight residence. So I checked the carseat after which introduced our stroller, child service and our diaper bag on the aircraft. I boarded early and obtained located and crossed my fingers for every little thing to go easily. 

Exhausted on the airport and able to be residence

I heard that feeding throughout take-off and touchdown can assist infants clear their ears, in order that’s precisely what I did. The remainder of the time he both slept or stared at my neighbors who all thought he was lovely. 

Earlier than I knew it, we landed in Salt Lake Metropolis, and everybody was complimenting him on how properly he did on the aircraft. 

Phew. That was an enormous reduction to test that mom-adventure off my (bucket)record. 

Slowing Down and Establishing routines

I’ve by no means been excellent at sustaining routines. Even earlier than changing into a blogger once I lived in Washington DC, the one routines I ever actually established have been consuming my morning espresso, displaying up for work on time, and frequently attending after work completely satisfied hours. 

Within the 9 years I’ve been self-employed, my potential to maintain a routine has solely gotten worse. Being on the go on a regular basis and continually altering environments makes it fairly troublesome.

Lately, I’ve accepted that I’m not likely a creature of behavior. I attempt to transfer my physique, eat a wholesome plant-based weight loss program, get some work performed, drink water, and go to mattress at an inexpensive hour…but when these issues don’t occur, I don’t beat myself up over it. 

Once we are within the van, each single day is completely different relying on the place we get up, what chores now we have to do, what enjoyable issues now we have deliberate, and the way far now we have to drive. Some mornings are gradual with time to prepare dinner a scorching breakfast, learn a e-book and ship some work emails. Different days, we get up, crush a bowl of cereal and hit the street. After all all of this was pre-baby. 

Now, with Herbie in tow, any small semblance of a routine within the van that we did have went out the window. And in that course of, I began to comprehend that routines are usually not solely good for a child, they’re completely crucial.  

That is what our routine appears to be like like lately (minus the reside Phish present on the television)

Up till now, Herbie’s naps have taken place on the fly. Whereas we have been within the van, that might have been within the child service, in a car parking zone, in his automobile seat, or within the stroller. We by no means put him on a schedule, as a result of for one, we didn’t actually know the way. And in addition, we wished him to adapt to our way of life, not the opposite manner round. 

After a month of him waking up each single hour in the midst of the night time, we have been paying the value for having him to function on our phrases.

I’ve come to the conclusion that his horrible night time sleep within the van was on account of him being 1) overtired and a pair of) overstimulated. His lack of napping routine meant that he was by no means napping lengthy sufficient or deep sufficient.

On prime of that, he was continually being thrown into new conditions and environments  – as a result of that’s what van life is all about. After all he can’t discuss to inform me but, however my new-found motherly intuition tells me that this was overwhelming for the little man.

The day earlier than I made a decision to fly residence with Herbie after a month of no sleep

I’ve began to comprehend that touring with our child was for us, not for the infant. I used to be desirous to get again on the street. Again to my “outdated life” the place journey and journey was my prime precedence. So I attempted to juggle that with my new precedence of caring for a child, and it was a hell of lots more durable on the infant than I anticipated.

Calling it egocentric is perhaps a little bit too excessive. A lot of our time on the street he was his completely satisfied, smiling self. I’m certain someday he’ll take a look at the pictures and assume, “wow that was cool my mother and father did van life with me once I was 4 months outdated.” But, on this present second, he appears that he’d somewhat be residence in his acquainted setting.

The excellent news is that since we’ve been residence in Salt Lake, his night time time sleep has vastly improved. We’re doing our greatest to stay to a nap schedule, and it actually does see to be working.

I nearly really feel like we’re within the new child stage once more, sticking largely round the home to work round his napping routine. He’s nonetheless not the very best napper, and solely appears to wish to nap in a darkish room whereas being held by me after breastfeeding.

Setting him up for napping success implies that we’ve needed to dial again what we hope to perform in a day. Although I’ve missed getting exterior this month and I fear how not being on the street impacts my potential to create the content material wanted for my weblog and enterprise, I do know that slowing down is what’s greatest for our household proper now. 

Herbie moved to a full-sized crib this month

I do know fairly quickly we can be out climbing and tenting once more, and I’ll be lacking this tremendous particular child section the place we are actually his entire world. 

As we’ve established some new routines for the infant, I’ve additionally tried to get again on monitor with routines of my very own. For the final 6 months, I’ve been letting my physique heal from my being pregnant and c-section and haven’t actually performed something too strenuous. So in August, I lastly jumped again on my Peloton. I’ve been doing a few of Jess King’s home rides and Dennis Morton jam band rides. Dennis at all times performs Phish songs which will get me tremendous pumped. 

Getting again on my Peloton has made me really feel actually good

I additionally began a mediation problem arrange by good friend Courtney to meditate for 40 days straight in celebration of her fortieth birthday. Like her, I’m additionally turning 40 in September, and that is the proper manner for me to ring in a brand new decade. 

I’m loving getting again into an everyday meditation routine

In Different Information

Right here’s a couple of different enjoyable issues I obtained as much as in August.

My mother and bonus-dad got here from Idaho to go to us for a couple of days. We took them as much as Alta to see the colourful wildflower bloom, adopted by lunch our favourite vegan restaurant known as Candy Hazel. We spent the remainder of the weekend enjoyable at residence, so they might spend some high quality time with Herbie.

my mother and I at Alta
The blooms have been beautiful up at Alta this 12 months

Subsequent, our little man began solids this month. We’ve been making his child meals at residence utilizing the child meals maker we obtained as a present. The most important hit up to now has been beets with candy potato, apple, chia seeds, and pumpkin seeds. Since we observe a plant-based weight loss program and are elevating Herbie this fashion too, we’re utilizing the guidelines within the Plant-Primarily based Juniors cookbook to verify he’s getting every little thing he wants.

I’ve additionally been having enjoyable within the kitchen making treats for Ryan and I. A brand new favourite snack I whipped up are these no-bake vitality bites made with peanut butter, flax seed, oats, chia, coconut, chocolate chips and honey. These would make a nice snack to tackle the path.

Lastly, we’re so fortunate right here in Salt Lake to have a bunch of buddies who’re unimaginable musicians. They play frequently round city and on the ski areas, making it simple for us to get out and luxuriate in some reside music.

This month our buddies Meandercat performed at Brighton and The Pour performed at Snowbird. We took Herbie up there together with his noise cancelling headphones so we might all boogie down.

Having fun with Meandercat play at Brighton Ski Space

Okay that’s it for August! Thanks for maintaining with me and these updates. I actually get pleasure from writing them and sharing a extra private facet of my life. I’ll have some thrilling issues to share in September, so keep tuned!

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